Isn’t monogamy Christian? That’s what gays have lurched into. I’m sure they will follow heteros in recognizing the weaknesses of fidelity to marital vows.
Darryl Hart
R2K advocate
Adjunct Professor Westminster Seminary California
1.) Ask yourself if in the context of a biblical definition of marriage is it even possible to talk about monogamy as existing between two men or two women? In the context of a biblical definition of marriage only a man and woman as married can be monogamous.
2.) It requires a willful torpidity to think that what sodomites really want (were it even possible) is monogamy and to think that, except in a very small percentile there is any desire for fidelity.
Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, by authors Michael, Gagnon, Laumann, and Kolata, cites a study of homosexual male couples conducted by gay researchers.
The couples who participated had been together between 1 and 37 years.
Findings were as follows:
- 100% (all) of the couples experienced infidelity in their relationship within the first 5 years.
- Couples who remained together past the 10-year mark were able to do so only by accepting the painful reality of infidelity in their relationship
- More than 85 percent of the couples reported that their greatest relationship problems center on issues related to outside relationships.