Dear Pastor,
I was listening to your sermon this past Sunday and something stuck out to me that I don’t fully understand. I’m hoping you can clear up my misunderstanding.
I don’t think I understand why this pastor needs to be punished. Shouldn’t this be looked at similar to a sober alcoholic or a gambler who avoids the casino? I would have imagined we’d rejoice that someone is resisting temptation by God’s power and willing to share their struggle with others. Just as an aside, is the sharing of his urge the issue here? Is it normalizing same sex attraction within the church? Clearly I don’t know the character of the person you mentioned so who’s to say if they’re truthful. But taking the story at face value it seems like God’s victory, not something worthy of chastisement or punishment by human hands.
Zebulon Johnson
Hello Zebulon
Thank you for taking the time to ask. I hope I can answer your excellent question in a satisfying manner.
1.) It’s one thing to admit privately in a counseling session that you’re having trouble with same sex attracted (ssa) feelings. It’s quite another to celebrate the fact that you’re SSA. The Pastor in question has been a keynote speaker at several Revoice conferences held at his church. These conferences have been a gathering sight for anti-Christ Christianity which you can read about here,
https://gospelreformation.net/a-needful-departure/?print=print
2.) Scripture teaches that Ministers are to be “above reproach” ( 1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6-7). I don’t think it is evidence of being above reproach if little Tommy on his way home from Church says to his parents…. “Daddy, Mommy, why do we attend a church where the Pastor likes other men the way Daddy likes Mommy?”
3.) Yes, it is normalizing the aberration. As I said, I have no problem coming alongside a brother or sister privately who has these temptations but when they start holding conferences in order to connect with one another, this means that the aberration is being mainstreamed.
I have, in the past, sought to befriend people w/ this besetting sin. Sadly, they never repented. So, this is not a matter of “Ew, this is icky and I don’t want to be around it.” It is a matter of “We should not be mainstreaming this in the church.”
4.) I do not think that it would be wise for a man who was a former alcoholic to be in the ministry if that alcoholism was recent. This would be doubly true if there was a boasting quality to his statement … “I am an alcoholic Christian, though I remain celibate as to the bottle today.”
5.) When Christ redeems us we don’t identify with the sin that we were redeemed from. The minister in question repeatedly says… “I am a gay Christian who is celibate.” NO… he is just a Christian who used to practice sodomy. Scripture says
9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [b]homosexuals, nor [c]sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were [d]sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.
The emphasis here is on the fact that what they once were, they now are no longer because they have been “Justified, in the name of the Lord.” Yet, the Pastor in question desires to continue to find his identity not in being justified but in proclaiming that he is a gay Christian.
6.) Some sins are worse than other sins. Westminster Catechism,
Q151 – What are those aggravations that make some sins more heinous than others?
Sins receive their aggravations,
a. From the persons offending922 if they be of riper age,923 greater experience or grace,924 eminent for profession,925 gifts,926 place,927 office,928 guides to others,929 and whose example is likely to be followed by others.930
b. From the parties offended:931 if immediately against God,932 his attributes,933 and worship,934 against Christ, and his grace,935 the Holy Spirit,936 his witness,937 and workings938 against superiors, men of eminence,939 and such as we stand especially related and engaged unto,940 against any of the saints,941 particularly weak brethren,942 the souls of them, or any other,943 and the common good of all or many.944
c. From the nature and quality of the offense:945 if it be against the express letter of the law,946 break many commandments, contain it in many sins:947 if not only conceived in the heart, but breaks forth in words and actions,948 scandalise others,949 and admit of no reparation:950 if against means,951 mercies,952 judgments,953 light of nature,954 conviction of conscience,955 public or private admonition,956 censures of the church,957 civil punishments;958 and our prayers, purposes, promises,959 vows,960 covenants,961 and engagements to God or men:962 if done deliberately,963 wilfully,964 presumptuously,965 impudently,966 boasting,967 maliciously,968 frequently,969 obstinately,970 with delight,971 continuance,972 or relapsing after repentance.973
d. From circumstances of time974 and place:975 if on the Lord’s day,976 or other times of divine worship,977 or immediately before978 or after these,979 or other helps to prevent or remedy such miscarriages,980 if in public, or in the presence of others, who are thereby likely to be provoked or defiled981 .
Sodomy is a particularly heinous sin. The desire for sodomy is a particular heinous sin. We know that sodomy is a particularly heinous sin because its committal required the death penalty in the OT. Now, to be sure, the temptation for sodomy is not as heinous as the actual act but referring to #2 above it is my conviction that to say “I am a gay Christian” removes one from the category of “above reproach.”
7.) If a Minister said … “I lust after other men’s wives but I am celibate” would you think that man belongs in the pulpit?
8.) The Pastor in question had an explanation for all this on the floor of their Denominational meeting. That explanation requires its own post in order to reveal the deep problems with his explanation and why it was not particularly Christian. His explanation only reinforced my conviction that he was in the wrong career. He clearly articulated that he self-identified as gay (more accurately, sodomite). It is sin for a Christian to find their identity in their sinful behavior OR desires.
9.) The fact that all this is proof that sodomy has been accepted is seen in the reality that while increasing numbers of “Christians” are accepting this language from a minister saying, “I am same sex attracted,” they would still never accept a minister saying… “I am same sex attracted to farm animals, but it’s ok because I resist the temptation to bed a milking cow.” Really what’s the difference? There is none. Neither is there any difference between a minister saying… “I am sexually attracted to dead people … to 3 year old boys … to toaster ovens.. but it’s ok because I don’t give in to those sexual attractions.” Nobody in their right mind would hire someone like that as a minister and yet they are ready to cheer a minister who says … “I am sexually attracted to other men but, it’s ok, I don’t give into that.” Why is that? It is because sodomy has been main-streamed already in the minds of simpleton Christians and all those other things will eventually likewise soon enough be main-streamed unless the Lord Christ desires to grant Reformation.
It’s all softening people up to accept the sodomite as Christian and is reflecting that many people have accepted this category and will soon accept the idea of two men being sodomites as long as they are married. This is the arc of all of this malfeasance.
10.) I don’t doubt that there are people who are ssa who may indeed be Christian. I do doubt that ssa people who boast of being ssa but celibate have yet to increase in sanctification.
11.) Now, invariably, people will accuse me of being a Pharisee for all of the above. So, I offer the necessary confession that I understand that I am, like the Apostle Paul, the chief of sinners. I understand that all my righteousness is in Christ alone. I understand that I need to continue to press on to the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. I admit that apart from grace I would fall again tomorrow. I seriously labor to try to not think of myself more highly than I ought. If I knew the minister in question I would be glad to be friends with him just as I had two good friends once upon a time who were sodomites. I just don’t think this belongs in the pulpit, and further, I am convinced that the fact it is in the pulpit and is so widely accepted is evidence that the Institutional church has largely become a harlot.
Some of the bullet points above overlapped so you’ll forgive me if I’ve been repetitive.
Thanks for writing to ask,
Pastor Bret