1. Be upfront and honest with what you believe politically, theologically, philosophically, and morally.
2. Don’t be afraid to put your views out in the open, especially the ones that people will find most controversial.
3. Fight for those views without apology.
4. Eventually, you will have the “Adam Carolla” or “Howard Stern” affect. Have you ever noticed how those two men can say anything they want, and nobody calls for them to be cancelled anymore? They used to….but not anymore. Why? Because they know that both of those men are too far gone to be scolded and scorned into changing their opinions. The sons of earth are shrewd in that way, and we should be too.
5. Don’t lie or obfuscate your views unless you are dealing with your enemies. You do not owe them any information. But your family, friends, and church leadership are not the folks that you want to hide your beliefs from. To do so is to put them in the same camp as your enemies.
6. If your more controversial “flags out front” views are not shared by your Elders, do not undermine them by trying to convert the congregants to your point of view. Sure, use your public platform to discuss what you want to discuss. But do not be a subversive.
7. Lastly, enjoy yourself! Don’t be a shrill, get wrapped around the axels, and self righteous. State your business, and have a good time doing it!
They are going to find out anyway.”
Would you ever use a pen name? An internet alias?
Do you think less of those who do?
Is a pen name or an alias a legitimate tool for people to use?
We don’t settle issues by taking a poll or listing examples to establish a consensus as if that would be conclusive. It would be easy to name many people have used pen names and aliases. Do you think less of those who did?
Yes… I have in the past
Yes… I have in the past
I don’t always think less of those who do, though I do think less of them when they agree with me but are still offended by me
“They are going to find out anyway.”
So save them some time and be up front about things. I never had a problem with it. I consider it an invitation.
My brother from another mother.