I do realize that this whole line of inquiry could be merely some kind of trap in order to try and discredit me.
Here is my response to his query;
Hello Mr. Z,
Thank you for writing me.
This is a perplexing question that I often have to field. I usually answer it by saying; “I do not think I could attend that kind of church, though I would never fault someone who shared my worldview for attending such a church since I realize how important worship is and since I realize how difficult it is to locate other churches that would be any better.”
I also tell most people that if I attended said church I could not support it with my tithes and offerings since any money I would give to the Church would be supporting those very things to which I am adamantly opposed. So, if it were myself in your situation, if I decided to attend, I would not financially support the Church. I might instead give my tithes and offerings to families/individuals in the congregation who I saw had some real financial need. In such a way you’re not supporting the church as an Institution though you would still be supporting the needs of the church. I would also probably try to do that kind of thing anonymously.
I would also, were I you, try to speak with the Pastor about some of these matters, or failing that, I would try to pass on thoughtful articles or books or lectures or podcasts on these issues. Everybody is talking about these issues now and there is some good material out there. An older piece by Joe Sobran titled “Pensees” can be found online and would be good for your Pastor to read.
I should probably end by noting that your if your Pastor is “conservative” it is of the “Normie Conservative” type. In other words your Pastor is definitely not “conservative.” Worse yet, I do not think he is a particularly orthodox Christian.
Of course most of us are walking curios and so have contradictions all about us. As such, I realize that your Pastor could be quite good in other areas of Christian orthodoxy even if he is horrid on these you have told me about.
All of this advice is based on the assumption that you are single. If you had children my advice would be different.
I am sorry that the visible Church is so against Her stated Master. I am sorry that you are having to go through this.
As in Christ we can Never Surrender,
Pastor Bret
“I would also, were I you, try to speak with the Pastor about some of these matters, or failing that, I would try to pass on thoughtful articles or books or lectures or podcasts on these issues.”
Do that and you won’t have to worry about whether or not to stay there. Your problem will be solved. Then you can go for a repeat performance somewhere else.
The stuff this guy is pedaling is not Christian. It is exactly these things that are destroying the church and the nation. And he needs to be told.
Eph 5:11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;